Elaine is back...Yippee !!!

Hi Folks,

Elaine and Ethan had arrived home save and sound from Glasgow. The two oldest lads were delighted to have their Mum back and Elaine was glad to be back too. I am glad to have her and Ethan back too. Elaine and Ethan had a great time over in Glasgow.

I managed to accomplish a few things today. Mind you I stayed in bed after seeing the boys off to school as it was the warmest place to be in. I had my laptop and notes with me..:-)

I have come to a conclusion that I am in an equilibrium state with myself. I feel full of spirit and happy with what I had accomplished in life so far. I have a beautiful wife that is both thoughtful and kind, three healthy young lads that are full of joy and energy. What more can I ask for? Happiness I find is when you are at one with oneself. I know for a fact that what I have is a life changing experience and it was an up hill struggle so far but I foresee closure in the near future that will lift my family and me to a new level of togetherness. As together we are strong to live life to the full.

I am now encouraging the two eldest to think beyond their scope and to experience new things. I signed them up to the leisure centre teen swim club. At first they were not happy with it as they said that it will eat into their time. But I was adamant that they should go, as they do not relies that there more to life than sitting about watching TV. Elaine took them down as they were not happy that I forced this upon them and we had argued about it. When I went to pick them up they were really glad that I made them go, they had a great time and made new friends…kids uhhh!!! I had tried to let them feel and understand what they want to do with their time but they tend not to see more that the end of their nose…so the issues have to be forced upon them.

People in general nowadays seem to be more like this…they like the status quo and will not deviate to experience new pleasures. Maybe this is why people are addicted to reality TV. As it someone else that is going through the pain and pleasures of a life change rather than do it for themselves. Also it might explain the up rise in life coaching. It seems to be on every day on daytime talk shows. Is this the new religion as people are turning away from their traditional religious belief? I myself believe there is someone or something is looking over us. Whatever it is it is a benevolent being, the reason is that humans have created a checkered history of bad and good moments and yet we are still here today. Take the analogy of a gardener…a gardener tend to pluck out bad bits to let the good bits flourish…yet we still have a bad side of human nature in today’s society. Not sure how I got thinking about this…it is way too complex for me to put to words but the main issue is to live life to the full and don’t let obstacles stop you doing this. Be a more than you are today tomorrow.

Sleep tight now...

Nite,

Sai